A Royal affair!
There was such a grand build up to Hari Raya or as it is known in the rest of the world as Eid-ul-Fitr. The shops were jam packed with shoppers buying new table linen, crockery and cutlery. It is traditional for everyone to have a new outfit and the pantry to be stocked up. As Hari Raya, which translates into "days of celebration", fell on a Saturday and Sunday, Monday and Tuesday were public holidays as well.
We had been invited together with our Malaysian family to attend a luncheon at a local Palace to celebrate this esteemed holiday! I confess I was extremely excited and just a little nervous. Do you bow, curtsy, kiss the hand? Do you dare to "chat". What do you chat about? And of course the age old question what to wear.
There is no way anyone like me can compete with the wonderful outfits worn by the local Malaysian women. The outfits are stunning. I had a beautiful mustard yellow top given to me by my friend in Bangalore Cynthia which I had kept for a special occasion which I thought I would wear! Just hours before leaving I show it to Moira who laughs nervously and tells me that it is not appropriate as only members of the Royal family can wear yellow!! Back to the drawing board and out came my good old faithful red top which turned out fine.
We had to drive a way to get to the function and where ever one looked the buildings and fences had the National flag flying. It all looked so festive. In Malaysia it is traditional to have an "Open House" to which you invite special friends and family but really anyone can pop into. There is no pomp and ceremony, you eat as much as you like and you leave. Some people bring flowers and biscuits as gifts but most don't. As this Open House was being held by the local Prince and his family everyone in the district was welcome to arrive.
The tables were set and decorated with lovely white linen and there were tables of food on offer. But we were invited to dine right inside the palace with the Price and his family!! oh my what a beautiful room with blue carpets and blue chandeliers! His beautiful family were in attendance having flown in from all over the world and his wife hosted the party. There was no need to concern myself about what to chat about as she loves cooking and had personally planned and been involved in preparation of some of the dishes on offer.
Malaysian food is HOT and I only had a teaspoon of this and that. I do enjoy satay and endulged in a few of those! The array of deserts was amazing and together with a couple of glasses of lemonade I thoroughly enjoyed this privilege. My photos are few and not so good but it was decided to not appear too rude by snapping away at the Royals. The precious memory of this Royal affair will be with me for some time!!